9-29-25 Joy at The Eagle, knee pain experiment, E.D. factors, etc.

Being of a certain age I find the state of hardness when mutually releasing can be contingent on many factors. As a senior, my tool tends to have a mind of its own-I mean, it always did but now it does even more than ever before. Subsequently, some of these factors that can influence our ability to fuck play the role of top are; our fatigue level, or how good or bad  we feel at the time, yes--your "chi" as they in Asian medicine and of course if you've been jerking off to porn--that day--or NOT for a few days--so as to allow your sacral chakra to recharge. Then of course there's the chemistry. Is your partner hot? Do you know him? How well? Is this business or pleasure? Being a multi-player and dedicated hedonist, I know the routine with a few partners now and it's effortless to get the heat going, i.e., when we are both clear about what we like, want and what works for us. Of course, if we are talking real whore work--the needs of the sacred intimate therapist/healer-whore/masseur should always come before the needs of the client. And if you are the healer/whore, don't feel bad when your needs aren't being met, for it's not all about you (here and now). If it's a date, the dynamics may differ; Dating is a two way street--best handled with kindness and negotiation. I recall (in the excreably exciting 80) that in my dating life if I put my partner's needs before mine; usually I ended pretty unhappy and unsatisfied. As they say the road to hell is paved with the best intentions. At the same token to be extremely selfish in the sex act is also to be an outright asshole. And Trump is asshole enough FOR ALL OF US! So be mindful...

Last night at The Eagle I had an absolute ball. The DJ was the too, too hot Mitch Ferrino--I could watch him for hours--and I've noticed in the past few months he's gotten better and better. And the boys--oh the hot, hot boys. What fun dancing, my faith is renewed in that place. Larry, my all-time fav bartender, the lights (I think they got rid of the dark-haired woman--I liked her). Anyway I lost myself and had an ecstatic time. Thank you Eagle, NYC.

On another note (of health), my inner knee pain is excruciating and while meditating today it suddenly occurred to me that (this being a relatively new condition) the cause may very well be that I've been taking Zetia the past few months to keep my bad cholesterol at bay. Sooooo I'm going on a Zetia break for a few weeks to see if this alleviates the pain and I start to feel better. I hope so. I'm already on several herbal supplements from Health Concerns (my go-place for pre-made Chinese herbal formulas (Collaginix, & Mobility formula besides my regulars Glucosamine with MSM by Doctor's Best, and Essence Chamber (also by Health Concerns, this one for prostate health). After the Zetia break I may decide to go on colestipol  which is actually a 

Bile acid sequestrant

Eeek. 

Now for some fun; watching TV!

So I enjoyed watching the entire Black Rabbit series this weekend and will hopefully be starting "The Girlfriend" starring Robin Wright and some other cunt tonight. Only one more night till Alien Earth and probably the last episode. I so wish they would continue "Raised by Wolves" that show was beautiful and outrageous in its imaginings...

Watched "the Man in the Basement" last night. Somewhat interesting (loved the lead black-tor) but the movie itself was one big raving showcase featuring White Man's Guilt as it major theme and selling point; I mean can we get anymore forced wokeness shoved up our ass??!! Pa-lease.

The Jewish holidays are taking a tremendous toll on my business (as they do every year this time of year) but I had one today--thank you K. Sorry I was flying at half-mast (see above) but glad you came and enjoyed the session anyway. That was one-hot pussy. It's the chemistry counts.

bestest

St.Orr

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