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Health Alert: Cyclosporiasis is here 7-16-26
A nationwide outbreak of Cyclospora cayetanensis (cyclosporiasis) has recently been reported across multiple states. It's passed by eating unclean food. Please wash your vegetable and fruits really well and try to avoid pre-packated lettuce, spinage, etc. unless you are cooking (the spinage). For LGBTQ (men) community: Prevention and Self-Care Avoid sexual contact (especially oral-anal contact) while you have diarrhea, and for at least two weeks after your symptoms have fully
Steven Orr
12 minutes ago1 min read
What is my tipping policy and why 7-15-26
My tipping policy is "According to your income." The average tip is $20-$40 on a $120 incall. This follows for the majority of my clients who are affluent enough (having disposable incomes) to be able to employ me for a massage, maybe once a month. I call these clients "working" or "Upper-middle class." If you are wealthy (own two houses or more or identify as "a part of the 1%") a tip of $100-$200 is appropriate, especially for very challenging work, such as prostate drainag
Steven Orr
11 hours ago1 min read
Re: Amazing Documentary "REMAKE" 7-11-26
https://www.documentary.org/feature/ross-mcelwee-discusses-remake-loss-his-son-and-returning-filmmaking-after-more-decade-long In which the film maker discuses and plays with aging, the loss of his son and a Hollywood-style remake of an old documentary by him from years before...quite an amazing media collage/comtemplation on life, aging and death. Can't wait to see this! Of course "Evil Dead-Burn" comes first next Tues after my birthday! : )
Steven Orr
5 days ago1 min read
Da River of Denial Runs Deep 7-10-26
This is the copy of BEST NUDE MASSAGE (along with a photo of his tits and ass with the phone in the selfie blocking his face)...from a recent ad I saw float by on the Rentmasseur site ***BEST NUDE MASSAGE IN TOWN*** I am a healer first. If ur just looking for ur routine ****** please do not contact me. Wait, what? I thought "FUCK" was spelled with four letters. Why da biatch usin' SIX? This is a perfect of example of how fucked up most of these boys are on Rentmasseur...cheap
Steven Orr
6 days ago3 min read
Ding Dong the Witch is Dead! 6-23-26
I was not sorry to read about Clive Davis' passing. A few years ago he hired me for an Outcall and the man was one of the cheapest, sleaziest clients I have ever worked on since becoming licensed in 1990 in NYC. Good riddance to bad rubbish. Amen.
Steven Orr
Jun 231 min read
Please sign this petition! 5-18-26
https://www.change.org/p/stop-the-8-e-3rd-st-shelter-intake?recruiter=1286213234&recruited_by_id=45c35170-66b7-11ed-b722-ffe99b9bfc84&utm_source=share_petition&utm_campaign=share_petition&utm_term=starter_onboarding_share_personal&utm_medium=copylink&utm_content=cl_sharecopy_491189023_en-US%3A9&share_id=LLXKNpV5f6&redirect_reason=deprecated-url&fbclid=IwY2xjawR4mFFleHRuA2FlbQIxMABicmlkETFEQmVnWjB6RU5OZnFUUW1hc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQQMjIyMDM5MTc4ODIwMDg5MgABHmMwlrCIBCXXdbannYiN2VhpMNEF
Steven Orr
May 181 min read
Shooting the East Village! Heartbreaking! 4/29/2026
https://www.cbsnews.com/newyork/news/east-village-manhattan-deli-worker-shooting-nypd/ I had my bike repaired today by Jeff on E. 13th not half a block away from the site of the shooting. This is so heartbreaking. This beautiful father (28 y.o.) shoot by a prize "A-hole." Jeff was telling me the shooter was the neighborhood -hole: always picking fights with people and starting shit with everyone--obviously a mentally unhinged individual who refused to look into therapy or med
Steven Orr
Apr 292 min read
4-20-26
I'm singing songs about trying not to drink today! Wish me luck. Please don't forget to visit my music site https://saintorr.bandcamp.com/ Music is my other love--besides men, massage, muscle and dance...went to Eagle last night: had a good time. Then did two hours of biking. Long chat with a fellow from Italy, (he's not queer) we were sharing stories of our lives... Just released myself--as extremely horny today...I took a "chill pill" and it only made me more horny LOL. Wat
Steven Orr
Apr 201 min read
Sacral chakra haiku April 2026
Oh the expanse of our time Stretched out Like your body on my table... Wrapped in the release I free your body's mind Spreading the glistening sweetness All wrapped up All ending too soon That is our only crime
Steven Orr
Apr 191 min read
Steven Orr
Apr 190 min read
Why massage? And why all types are good.
4-6-26 The masseur must adjust his massage work accordingly when called upon to perform comforting, nurturing massage in certain clients, i.e., those with with cancer, hip or knee replacement, or severe injuries: because these clients are in pain, and the goal here is to reduce pain. Reducing pain is the first step in healing. Nurturing massage is absent of the typical M4M sacral chakra so-called service although often a client who is in need of therapeutic touch also desires
Steven Orr
Apr 43 min read
3-16-26 MELANIA=a great emptiness...a symptom of our times as Americans.
As I watched MELANIA I couldn't help but think of a gangster’s moll! Jean Harlow had so much more class! So here we are...left with a Slavic face and a purring voice and sycophantic queens making sure her collar was tight. And those PR cunts in charge of her--the so-called Gatekeepers! The lack of integrity of those women makes them all look like floozies. I do so wish we had somebody like a genius George Carlin--calling out all this fake hypocrisy going on all around us. Isn
Steven Orr
Mar 173 min read
The Problem with group "things" & more on my D&D group idea: 2-20-26 Part 2
Gorging on Epstein documentaries. His evil rivals Trumps. Further on the D&D Group (Death and dying). Once you start putting too much energy in groups and social media shit, it becomes a kind of vampire force sucking your energy. I could spend all day online Tic Toc, reading news, youtube but there's a point where I feel like I'm overdosing and have to stop stop stop. Some further D&D topics to explore. (There's also a Death Cafe next thurs in the Waldman Living room...info :
Steven Orr
Feb 201 min read
forming a Death and Dying Support Group! 2-20-26
Hello all. Well, it's THAT time of year when the slow period get even slower! Get out your gratitude lists and focus on creative activities and things that uplift and support you 'cause baby if your a mature m4m masseur (one among thousands in NYC work slows down tremendously. My theory is that it's due to all the religious shit going down (starting with Chinese New Year, Ramadan, Easter, etc.) and men feel guilty, shamed or the urge to be celibate--give up sex for lent--? wh
Steven Orr
Feb 203 min read
What's wrong with AI? 2-18-26
FROM HELLO WRITER (Substack blog) by Linda Caroll Using AI means we don’t need to pick the words, or ask which parts belong and which don’t. We don’t need to determine which parts are rambling and which is the best order for the words to go in and then edit three or fifteen times. But it doesn’t just affect ability to write. If it did, that would be a non-issue because let’s be honest. Most people using AI struggle to write in the first place and if there was no AI, many of t
Steven Orr
Feb 181 min read
Cancer 2-16-26
Whore-a-scope from Chicago Tribune... Comfort grows when truths breathe in safety. The nurturing Moon unites with intense Pluto in your 8th House of Intimacy, encouraging honest talks about deep issues. Me: Who with? Maybe Mr. P? Why do queer relationships always begin from a sexual place? Maybe that a state of intuitive/sacral chakra intelligence. ! And straights should learn from us : ) LOL. You might review a shared account or open up about a sensitive worry with a loved
Steven Orr
Feb 162 min read
Steven Orr
Feb 140 min read
Happy Valentines Day! 2-14-26
Cancer June 21 – July 22 Being respected could earn you trust and real options going forward. Your 10th House of Career and Status gains focus as authoritative Saturn arrives there. Perhaps people will finally notice that your caring nature consistently leads through reliability. Still, if a supervisor or elder raises the bar, ask for written priorities and set fair deadlines, because a clearly defined scope protects your reputation and home rhythm. Embrace the opportunity to
Steven Orr
Feb 141 min read
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