Blood Moon eclipse tonight! 8-28-26

Blood Moon eclipse

Begin 9:23

Gets more intense 10:33

Peaks at 12:12 am (most of moon shrouded)

Ends at 3:01 when moon exits out outer edge of earth’s shadow

I'm just trying to encapsulate the essence of what I was trying to say about how client's

book a massage in my last entry: I think it comes down to this, when you're booking

don't be an asshole! Ahh, finally I nailed what I was trying to say!

When you book--don't be an asshole. Assholes aren't kind. And assholes tend to be users who steal your time and then end up not booking, basically. The worse ones are the one's who get annoyed at you for speaking truth to power or pointing out to them how they are inducing a "red light" scenario. The red light scenario can be various things: the first thing is obviously being a stalker. What's that? It's a client who continually contacts the masseur to (allegedly) make an appointment, then more than likely doesn't show up: or he continually contacts you during the week confessing that's he's thinking of you now and how he desperately needs to be fucked by you.

Can't we all be kind to each other? Why I wonder is this so hard to do? Homophobia turned inward? Being abused by fellow gays when you're "out" and/or being bullied by straights (or teased by bully boys and castrating girls when you were a child. Then there's trans-Fear-aphobia or fear of trans people. That's a weird one. Usually I don't overtly fear trans-people but what I experience from them is a lot of disapproval of me (cause I'm a cis-queer-man?) or a kind of waiting in judgement from them for me to fuck up the pronoun. It's so weird and twisted. Almost as bad as being lynched by a mob of straight Alpha-males with their funny pointed spa hats at THE BATH HOUSE Flatiron on certain evenings looking for pussy...(Ew.) Makes me kinda long for the olden days of the gay bath houses were we just fucked like bunnies! : )