New Policy-money up front 7-27-25

After decades of doing M4M massage, I need to change an important business policy.

From today onward I will need to collect all money for the massage front. In the past two months I have had two clients steal massage from me. (The first couldn't get online with his phone SO HE CLAIMED). His name was Andre a black man who calls himself white-his number is 347-877-0938; and the second just last night one young guy "Elliott", an East Village local had his phone die as he opened Venmo to pay me, then ghosted me.

The clients' names and numbers are shared on this site to alert other M4M body workers to the their scams. The last faggot's number (with a MO exchange) is 225-916-1677. I don't use the pejorative term faggot lightly but if you are going to act like a demon, a thief, a perp and a man without integrity, then I will call spade a spade. It really gives me pause to think that with so many wounded men in the world, there seems to be a new global epidemic to pass the wounding of men onto other men and to share your baggage of pain with little regard to empathy or compassion.

It's disheartening to say the least that after more than three decades of doing this work I have to resort to this (industry standard) practice of collecting the money up front. Not sure why this was such a difficult new policy for me to put into action; I guess I preferred to believe that most men are good but after these two experiences it's plain to see I need to protect myself with strong warrior energy.

I look forward to continuing to be open to working on both new and old clients. Thank you and enjoy your summer!

Steve O

nycmasseur.com